You all did a book event. Youve been so nice, but you didnt sign on for this. She stood in the kitchen, holding her cup of ginger tea. Karl and the dog went out on the front porch to read the newspaper. Don't have an account? God damn it, get inside, I said to my husband. Sooki let my friends with the plane know that she would be there on Thursday. Surely there would be a story there for one of us. My friend tilted her head. Sooki had downloaded it. I took her to the J.M.W.Turner exhibition at the art museum. Entire countries have lost their distinctive smell, The Wests industrial-sized chicken farms could be as dangerous as any wet market. Karls friend Dr.Bendell knew Sookis oncologist at UCLA and her oncologist at Stanford and her surgeon at Duke. He said that Sooki was good when they left. And I found maybe five other kids who had done the same thing and decided that I was going to make Thanksgiving dinner. A month later, I still hadnt seen all the clothes she had brought with her, and I never saw the cold caps. Speaking of which: The essay about your friendship with Sooki Raphael [Tom Hanks' assistant, whom Patchett met while interviewing Hanks at an event in 2017 and who died in April of this year . Blind Boys of Alabama with Special Guest TBA. The Amazing Rita Wilsons New Film About Choosing Life; How She Beat Cancer & Became A Songwriter, Hot, Sweaty And Itchy Feeling Turns Out To Be Cancer For 42-Year-Old Man When To Seek Help, 54-Year-Olds Misdiagnosed Muscles Spasms In Shoulder Turn Out To Be Pancreatic Cancer, Apples Steve Jobs Was Trying To Accept Powerlessness & His Place In The Universe The Newly Revealed Email To Himself. The authoritative record of NPRs programming is the audio record. Rita Wilson recently posted a tribute to her friend, Sooki Raphael, who painted throughout her treatment for pancreatic cancer. Here she was an artist who lived with a writer. She asked whether that was cheating and was told not to worry about it. It's an unforgettable story. I worked at the Bronx Zoo during school and then I did the whole bat thing. I knew there was a part of her that believed that maybe what Nashville had to offer in terms of fighting cancer was happening in our house, that she was improving because she was with us. It meant she didnt have to sit out chemo for a week. I had invited someone I didnt know to live with us for an undetermined length of time, and I was leaving the day after she arrived, leaving it all to Karl. There are people here all the time. Of course I opted for tattoos. I was going to tell Karl what was happening but he was looking at his own phone. For what? he asked. On the Trail of a Mountain Lion The footprint was in the middle of the trail. PATCHETT: So I first met Sooki Raphael backstage when I was interviewing Tom for his collection of short stories. The greenroom crowd was then escorted to their seats, and we were ushered to the dark place behind the curtainTom Hanks, his assistant, and I. That shed always been so careful not to cross any lines, not to advance herself through connections shed made through him. Finally she went downstairs. Maybe I would find the fight in me, but I was never much of a fighter. ), she developed a deep and lasting friendship with his assistant, Sooki. In 1997, she had a recurrence, and then she was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2014. We repeated these facts, we made them a mantra. Almost from the moment we finished that first practice, she identified it as part of her recovery, the thing she needed to stay alive. She needed me to take her to the hospital for an X-ray. There was my grandmother, my father. She painted as fast as she could get her canvases prepped, berating herself for falling asleep in the afternoons. Okay, he said. She lugged her suitcase out to the car without my knowing it. Was this what COVID-19 felt like? But I think Ann is the saint in the story. She started a kids clothing business. We had never spoken on the phone. But of course the thing to do would be to go, wouldnt it? "How other people live is pretty much all I think about. I wanted Karls comfort and was glad he wasnt there. My blue torso, the mold made on the day I came in for my fitting and tattoos, is already on the radiation bed and I need to bare my abdomen and slide onto the table so they can line up the laser beams with all my tattoos and red-sharpie xs before they cover me with a warmed flannel sheet. may 31, 2020: I had the most unusual dream last night. I would be gone for the night, and once I got back my friend Emma Straub was coming to visit. She had said almost nothing and yet my eye kept going to her, the way ones eye goes to the flash of iridescence on a hummingbirds throat. I kept up with a great number of people, and I didnt know to what extent Id told Sookis story to Karl before, and if I had told him, I didnt know whether hed been listening, but now I had his full attention. I had to turn myself away from the movie of what I thought was happening, the movie I had made for myself, so that I could see her. By the time I was done signing books that night, the event I had scheduled in New York the next day had been canceled. But for you, there was also a vapor that would come in and fill in any gap that was left in the process, and I realized, Oh, this is what is special here and so essentially Ann. There was a completeness. She shook her head. I saw Tom and Rita in Nashville two more times. The most important human qualities were being applied to this form. Jennie and I walked our dogs together after dinner, and Sooki came with us most nights, unless she had a phone call to return, unless she wasnt feeling up to it. Maybe it had something to do with her job. Shed gone to an Indian restaurant and bought bread stuffed with apricots and dates. Germline mutations in ATM, BRCA1, BRCA2, CKDN2A, PALB2, PRSS1, STK11 and TP53 are associated with increased risk of pancreatic cancer. He was watching the weather. The paintings were bold, confident, at ease. They had turned off the heat PATCHETT: Or they turned it down to whatever level would keep the pipes from freezing. We would meet on the level playing field of affectionate strangers. But everyone showed up, all four hundred of them packed in side by side, every last chair in the ballroom occupied. For them the mystery is solved by the act, and I understand that; its just not the way I work. Primarily and in her soul she was an artist.. And it's such a funny thing. Go together. I thought I was helping and now I wonder if Ive made it worse.. I met Sooki Raphael for a few minutes in Washington, D.C., around three years ago, and maybe even more than that now. But she rarely stayed upstairs. Had I thought it through, I never would have had the nerve to ask in the first place. She was twenty-one. This chemo wasnt the nightmare FOLFIRINOX had been. The last few months, the oncologists were watching the numbers and Western medicine offered nothing to do but to wait and see where the cancer showed up. Email tilts toward the overly familiar. We were still at the beginning then. In this collection are memoir pieces about her three fathers, one biological, two step which somehow makes you think of Goldilocks and the three bears; about a year of no shopping; about knitting; about sisters; about being nineteen in Paris; and about growing up Catholic in Nashville. Sometimes I had to get right in front of her to hear what she was saying. My goal was to maintain neutrality. She taught ceramics classes. NPR transcripts are created on a rush deadline by an NPR contractor. How is it possible? I said as I complimented her again and again. Email tilts toward the overly familiar. The world that Sooki inhabited was electrified by greens and blues, purple bougainvillea draping over hot-pink walls, colors too vivid to be explained. She worked for Tom Hanks. I knew I would write about Sooki eventually, I had told her so, but I had no idea what Id say. Why shouldnt I read one? But they had survived. I thought about how extraordinarily famous you would have to be to have someone like that working as your assistant. PATCHETT: I really, really appreciate that. You cant go home before Sunday., She was serious, but she was also tired, and so I could get her to agree. Niki works at the bookstore. Information; Artists; Auctions; Exhibitions; Magazine; Services; Market Analysis . She met a group of sailors who had sailed around the world. You will not be called upon to be a good guest. We started looking up articles on the Johns Hopkins website. There was an abstract image, and it was clearly younot in a physical way, but as a soul. View Sooki Raphael's business profile as TH Assistant at Playtone. She agreed to stay for a few nights, but after that she said she would rent a car and find a hotel. There was a sitting room downstairs, the library, her bedroom and bathroom. A neighbor of the Patchett's described Sooki as a saint. To introduce Karl into this narrative as a general internist (he calls himself a pediatrician for adults) would be reductive. Going forward, the lights may as well be off. But now she's memorialized in author Ann Patchett's latest book, These Precious Days: Essays, which will be released Nov. 23. Off we went to bed, the book and I, and in doing so put the chain of events into motion. He thanks me for it. He had a single-engine Cirrus that he kept at the small hobby airport not far from where we lived. Do you ever miss being alone in your house? she asked me once. She even worked for Wilson's husband, Tom Hanks, as his assistant. Raphael turned to art during a tumultuous time in her life and created works that will continue to be enjoyed long after her passing. Moving Forward after Losing a Loved One to Cancer. Add a Profile More Hide Episodes Title Year Update Role Assistant: Mr. Hanks Bridge of Spies (2015) Motion Picture Assistant: Tom Hanks Saving Mr. Banks (2013) Motion Picture Assistant: Mr. Hanks Cloud Atlas (2012) Motion Picture Assistant: Mr. Hanks Larry Crowne (2011) Motion Picture Assistant: Tom Hanks I find these things go better if you just wing it. Then the two of us stepped out into the blinding light. Tell me how you know her again? he asked. (These Precious Dayshas a portrait by her of Patchetts dog Sparky on the cover). I turned out the light and kept thinking about the leash, the marathons, the trail running, the yoga, the walking in the desert, the painting and painting and painting. She made props for TV shows. Welcome to the last book event on earth, I said when I walked onstage. We still had customers even if they couldnt come into the store, and they were fantastically loyal. Every morning before breakfast, we waved our hands in the air. The CA 19-9 had gone from 2,100 to 470. Sookie paints and paints and paints. In other essays, Patchett extols the enduring influence of John Updike, Saul Bellow and Philip Roth on her own writing; meditates on her friendship with Charlie Strobel, a priest in Nashville whom she calls a living saint; and tries to capture the flavor of her odd-couple relationship with her second husband, Karl, immortalized in the title essay of an earlier collection, This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage. As a medical doctor on staff at the Nashville hospital where Raphael was treated for advanced pancreatic cancer, he plays a crucial role in These Precious Days., Finally, theres that essay. . Get as many nuns on this as possible. That had been one of her greatest fears about coming to stay with us in the first place, that she would be unable to take care of herself, that she would be a burden, that she would embarrass herself. You might not see how everything threads together as you read along, but when you look back from the end of the story, the map becomes clear. Join The Spectator community and view or post a comment on this article. Shes there in Patchetts basement for the rest of lockdown. If youre concerned about pancreatic cancer in your family, start by talking to a genetic counselor to learn more about your risk and what options you have, Everett said. Ive heard writers say that they write in order to discover how the story ends, and if they knew the ending in advance there wouldnt be any point in writing. In the basement apartment jokingly called the VanDevender Home for Wayward Girls Sooki does what shes wanted to do all her life: paint. Ann Patchett and Tom Hanks' assistant? He watched classes on his computer and worked through calculus problems at the dining-room table. There was a six-hour playlist that the Johns Hopkins team had put together that was meant to somehow guide you safely through the experience. Karl spent a huge amount of time studying weather as part of his instrument-rating prep. He shook his head. Tell us. Come on, Sooki, he said, his voice gone grand. I like myself here, she said softly. Copyright 2023 SurvivorNet, Inc. All Rights Reserved. I could have forgotten Sooki altogether in that moment, because even though I followed her story with interest, it was one of many stories. It looks like a little purse on a long strap?, I asked her if she could have left it on the plane, but no, of course not. By the time individuals walk into the clinic with symptoms like jaundice, weight loss, back pain or diabetes, its often very late in the stage of the disease., RELATED: Increased Thirst and Dark Urine: Researchers Reveal Two New Signs of Pancreatic Cancer As Cases Increase Over Last 18 Years, Detecting Pancreatic Cancer Early Is Crucial. I had set my intention going in: I wanted to help my friend. Because if I didnt know that Sooki had a husband, how much did she know about me, about us? Wed stood together in the dark of a Washington theater for a matter of minutes a year and a half earlier. Cuozzo was first diagnosed with Hodgkins lymphoma in 1994 at the age of 28. Ken would come later. It was shallow, but perfect, and the early morning, Sea stones with holes in them have long been regarded as magical talismans, carried for protection, or safe passage. Its HARD. But now shes memorialized in author Ann Patchetts latest book. After dinner that night, Sooki and I sat on the couch and tried to watch a movie, but her phone on its leash began to ding and ding and ding, insisting on her attention. How do you get back on the plane to come home? There was no hesitation on the canvases, no timidity. Rene Fleming spent two years in Germany studying voice while she was in her twenties. Could any business wish for a better spokesperson? We went back and forth. As the number spiked this week at 1700 U/L, I ran out of excuses, and my PET scan on Wednesday showed a return of the cancer to my liver. Parents, siblings and children of someone with pancreatic cancer are considered high risk for developing the disease because they are first-degree relatives of the individual. PATCHETT: Right. And so when I looked up dressing, you know, it says, start with a loaf of day-old bread and make cubes. With our hands on our shoulders we turned left and right, left and right, endlessly. Sooki Raphael, Mesa Tree, Topanga, from 'Vivid Series' 16 x 20 inches. Lets try the car.. KELLY: My conversation this past fall with author Ann Patchett about her latest book "These Precious Days. Later, she asked him if hed be willing to record the audiobook of her latest novel, The Dutch House. When he agreed, she began a protracted email exchange with Raphael to work out the details. The other partners in his clinic asked him to stay home and practice telemedicine until there was a better sense of how the pandemic would be resolved. She painted her granddaughter striding through a field of her own imagination, she painted herself wearing a mask, she painted me walking down our street with such vividness that I realized I had never seen the street before, Patchett wrote. Just a guess. Did Tom even know that Sooki and I were friends? There were pictures of her at twenty-two, beautiful and dark-eyed, standing on somebodys desk in little canvas tennis shoes, her gloved hands holding a bat and a net. He already knew. No, its wonderful having her here.. They were dead, the wires, werent they? We did our best to pretend that what we were doing was normal. She painted. Or maybe it was the company. She didnt know. I wonder whether it isnt easier here because you dont have to comfort us, you dont have to make us feel better about the fact that youre sick. - which, you know, I could not possibly choose. I would be in and out, other people would spend the night, which would be fine, plenty of room for everyone. I Dont Want to Move On; I Do Want To Move Forward Doug Wendt On Being A Caregiver and Tragically Losing His Wife to Ovarian Cancer, Were never gonna move on, I dont even think I want to move on, but I do want to move forward, Doug said. Patchett is so 100 percent a writer that you get the feeling that her life doesnt happen unless she writes about it. Where were you born? I have to know where Im going, otherwise I spend my days walking in circles. I wanted to know what her worst fear about staying here was, and after a pause she told me she was a vegetarian. On her last night we sat in my office after yoga and I asked her every last question I could think ofwhen did she work on the documentary about George Romero, and when did she marry Ken? Then she went downstairs and went back to sleep. We are. There were mornings we would go to the store at first light, when no one was around, and tape up boxes and stick on labels together. She moved to Nashville, Tennessee when she was six, where she continues to live. A tremendous explosion rocked the house, something far beyond thunder. I might have made the choice to let it go unmentioned had there been something else to talk about, maybe his mother or my mother or the spigot that had frozen in the garage. Maybe Niki was right about my life being different, but maybe thats because I tend to think of things in terms of story: I pick up a book and read it late into the night, and because I like the book, I wind up on a flight to D.C. Shed only been here for a couple of hours. At the heart of her new collection is a 66-page story about her transformational late-in-life friendship with Sooki Raphael, an artist and the longtime assistant to actor Tom Hanks. Here is a non-fiction account from Harpers magazine, by the novelist Ann Patchett, of how she met Tom Hanks, and through him got to know his personal assistant, Sooki Raphael. Yoga was Sookis necessary social hour, and what I got in return was time with Sooki. Your hike looks gorgeous and loaded with spiritual component. Probably it was some combination of the two. But of course I was the one who took everything. It had been more than two years since I met Sooki in a theater in Washington. I never cry, and yet I had plans to do nothing else for the rest of the day and maybe the rest of the week. She seems very nice, Karl said once we were in the kitchen. In bed that night, Karl told me about how happy they all were, how kind. We went out to the street on that bright morning to see a fire high up in the distance. And painting and painting. All day long Sooki emailed me pictures of her family with the subject line Where is our other sister? Wed been introduced when I arrived but I didnt remember her name. Need to create a login? . How was I going to say I was tired when she was never tired? Everything filled in. New This Week; Available Now; Plant Types Why had I been so careful? She shouldnt stay for us or leave for us. Was it like they said it would be, life-changing? By the time we sat down it was over. 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Lucy said she didnt have time for this. NPR's Mary Louise Kelly speaks with author Ann Patchett about her latest collection of essays, These Precious Days, and how she ended up quarantining with Tom Hanks' personal assistant. Although his superhero mother will not get to see him play in the NFL, Farley will take many lessons he learned from her and apply them to whatever challenges he faces in life moving forward. Once Im there for chemo, I will find a place where I wont be worried about being a good houseguest. I wanted to say hello very quietly so as not to bother her. But our truest means of communication arrived in the form of old yoga DVDs. On the first Sunday in May, in the late afternoon, a storm kicked up, not expected but not a surprise either. It turns out that the trial that they were running at the hospital where he worked was exactly the trial she needed. She traveled the world as the personal assistant to one of Hollywoods biggest stars. That led to Patchett's friendship with Sooki Raphael, Hanks' assistant, and Patchett inviting Raphael to live in her home in Nashville while undergoing cancer treatment. My continuous and varied relationship with exercise was an inheritance from my father. Still, I wanted to double-check. Youre detoxifying all your inner organs.. He describes her as "someone who is all that is good in the world." A neighbor of Patchett's described Sooki as a saint. Its an honor, really. She lit up with all that breath. "[Sooki] was so many things," Wilson wrote. I asked him how he would feel about my extending an invitation to stay. Sooki had gone to work for the New York City Department of Healths Bureau of Animal Affairs right out of college. Ive had a happy life because of her.. And who wouldnt be given the fact that Raphael didnt really emerge as an artist until her pancreatic cancer diagnosis in November 2018. It was so important, she said, her voice pretty much vanishing in her mouth. He agreed, and then kept finding reasons to go to work anyway. She looked startled. I studied what did not come naturally, she told me. Would he think to tell me if something had happened? She painted and slept and did her work; she had her Zoom meetings and her Zoom gatherings with friends. I promised to call when it was over. She brought her paintings upstairs to show us: a person who was too shy to say good night most nights was happy for us to see her work. . feb. 14, 2020: Oh, Ann. It was just me in the house. Forget that. I worried about her dying. We wrote about artists we liked, about Pantone and the color wheel. The tumor in her liver was shrinking. She had transferred her life into brushwork, impossible colors overlapping, the composition precariously and perfectly balanced. The trick wasnt getting the mushrooms. As I was agreeing, there she was again. You explain it in the opening chapter. I want to envision it as a healing room, but it reminds me of a meat locker: freezing coldIm guessing the temperature favors the delicate machinerywith a rack of blue torsos lined up on hooks. All that was left was the wall around what had been their garden. If I can borrow your car, Ill drive back to the airport., I shook my head. In her tribute to Raphael, Wilson pointed to her friend as proof that it is never too late to explore your creative passions. Once she gets here and sees the way things are, shell be fine.. OVERVIEW EXHIBITIONS BIOGRAPHY Past Exhibitions. While other people were left to worry about a virus that may or may not have been coming for them, I worried about Sooki. It had been happening for a while. She made wedding cakes that tasted as good as they looked. But her time as Hanks assistant brought her to a woman who would later become an invaluable friend during her cancer treatment and artistic journey. We were about to go on. I looked up every anomaly online, settling on too much black tea, or maybe the wrong color shoes. We hugged, and I hefted her enormous suitcase into the hatchback. To say that Patchett was impressed is an understatement. Our newsletter vital information, hope, and healing, delivered weekly. And so she meets Sooki Raphael, Hanks' assistant. She told me she thought shed put too much of her creative energy into her outfits over the years since she had stopped painting, though she might have said it to make me feel better. I had spent my professional life looking at my calendar, counting down the days I had left at home. But have you seen my phone? They were waving. In a previous interview with SurvivorNet,Dr. Anirban Maitra, the co-leader of the Pancreatic Cancer Moon Shot at MD Anderson Cancer Center, explains what he typically sees when patients develop this disease. Sooki had had a toucan in college. I am doing my best to keep it pushed off to the side, but I was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in November (caught it early) so Ive been dealing with surgeries and chemo. PATCHETT: Yeah. People were dancing, laughing, and so she went outside. Find contact's direct phone number, email address, work history, and more. Sooki had been working for the bat squad in New York when a bicentennial parade passed in front of the Bureau of Animal Affairs. I met her briefly . It has to be one of the most extraordinary stories of lockdown how Tom Hankss assistant Sooki Raphael, undergoing treatment for recurrent pancreatic cancer, came to be living in the basement of the novelist Ann Patchett and her husband Dr Karl VanDevender. Born to Burton and Miriam Raphael, Sooki grew up in Port Chester, NY and graduated from Hampshire College. By the time Sunday came the urgency would have passed. I waited but nothing came next. How Much Is A Raphael Painting Worth? No events scheduled for January 20, 2023. We were sitting at the bar at California Pizza Kitchen at four oclock in the afternoon. Thats like the building blocks of my, of my life, Farley told SurvivorNet. She was thrilled to get the chance to work. The chemo, the clinical trial, the yoga and the vegetables, the prayers of nuns and all the time to paintwhat if it added up to something? Forgot your password? She went inside to see for herself. My husband, Ken, will come down for at least part of the time, once Ive started chemo, and I may have other visitors, so I think I will explore some other options in the area, but I cant tell you how touched I am that youve extended the offer. Now for no particular reason I changed my mind. feb. 15, 2020: I will try to keep this quick as I know you have many fish to fry. This is the way novelists think: beginning, middle, and end. She kept saying she wanted to be the one to help me for a change. Why shouldnt Tom Hanks write short stories? Her mother is the novelist Jeanne Ray. 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